[Question] timeframe — what am I missing here
Slightly embarrassed to be asking this, but: timeframe — what am I missing here.
The boring middle lasted the longest and it is the part I am most proud of.
On the goal weight you set in week one.
You chose it with the least information you will ever have about how this feels, what is sustainable, and what your body does at different points. Revising it is not moving the goalposts; it is updating a prediction, which is what you are supposed to do with predictions.
Several of the longest-standing members here have revised theirs more than once, in both directions, and describe the revision as the point at which the whole thing became manageable. What the number should be is a conversation with somebody who knows your history — but that it is allowed to change is something this board can tell you.
What to measure if you want to stay sane through the flat parts.
Weight, under consistent conditions, no more than weekly. Waist, monthly — it frequently keeps moving when the scale does not. And one non-scale thing a week written down: a garment, a staircase, a distance, an ordinary task that got easier.
A year of those three is a far better record than a year of daily weights, and reading the third column back is the part that actually means something. The daily number is noise dressed up as information, and it has ruined more months on this board than any plateau.
Ask me anything specific. Anything general I will probably get wrong.
best — the order this archive was captured in
Nothing on this board is medical advice, and rate, target and method are questions for somebody who knows your history.
That is a waist measurement, not a weight, and the thread has been comparing them as though they were the same.
That is a waist measurement, not a weight, and the thread has been comparing them as though they were the same.
farid_kuipers is right that the clothes tell you before the scale does.
Correcting my own post above — that was week 17, not the week I wrote. Same story, wrong number.
Removed advice aimed at another member. Describe your own experience here.
text only here, by community rule, and it works better than you would think
Removed advice aimed at another member.
Slight disagreement: that is a month, not a plateau, and calling it one makes it heavier than it is.
nobody owes anybody a starting weight
A goal weight chosen before starting is a prediction made with the least information you will ever have. Revising it is ordinary rather than a failure.
Are you measuring anything other than weight?
Cosigning on timeframe. "7kg" means something completely different over 14 months than over one.
Agreed that goal weights picked at the start are guesses. Mine was, and I revised it twice.
Push back on the goal number. You chose it before you knew what any of this felt like.
Did the clothes change before the number did for you too?
celebrate the boring milestones, they are the durable ones
Push back on the goal number.
Adding the thing I wish someone had said to me — the goal you picked at week one was a guess.
Stalled for 3 weeks and measured my waist out of stubbornness. It had moved. The scale had not.
Rate of change is not a virtue. Slower trajectories are as durable as fast ones and are considerably better represented on this board than the front page suggests.
a plateau is not a failure and it is not a personality
the timeframe matters as much as the number
The first thing I noticed was a jacket doing up. The scale had been flat for three weeks at that point.
comparison is the thief of everything on a board like this
Circumference measurements often continue changing during a scale plateau because composition changes are not visible on a bathroom scale.
I would not treat a two-kilo range as a regain. Weight varies day to day in everybody.
Careful — that reads as advice about what someone else should do, and this board is for describing your own.
Weighing under consistent conditions — same time, same state, same scale — removes most of the apparent variability people find distressing.
Gently disagree with the framing — that is not a plateau, that is a month. They are different things.
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